Random thoughts

Random thoughts may not be that random !

Individual freedom

Posted on facebook, by me, on Mar 18, 2014

Look at the following 3 statements

1. I love God more than anything else, hence I will force my religion and belief on you, even though you may not like it. I want you to be happy after death, hence I want to you, to give up your freedom and listen to what I say

2. I believe in love and I am looking for a guy/ girl who can give me love 24 x 7, I mean all the time. He / She should not think about anything else and only love me. Its okay that you may loose the freedom to pursue anything else, but that’s okay. Its for me, right ?

Aim of life

Posted on facebook, by me, on Dec 28, 2013

No heaven, no heart. I don’t want to be perfect and I am so happy 🙂
Today I realized that trying to be perfect or right is NOT the aim of this life. I realized that I won’t get all the answers, but that’s okay. I know that I won’t get to make people understand me. But even, that’s okay.

God bless and have a nice day, my friend

Being sensitive to suffering

Posted on facebook, by me, on Dec 1, 2013

If you have a fatal disease like type 4 cancer, and if you are surrounded by people who don’t know how to handle it, like probably an overprotective mom, or a careless doctor/ hospital staff or a or a sympathetic friend, then more than the pain, and the difficulty associated with the disease, it would be their attitude and behavior towards you, that would hurt you the most.

A life with purpose

Posted on facebook, by me, on Nov 21, 2014

When your most loved ones move away from you, they take away with them, one of your most valuable assets, your purpose. You will suddenly be left with no purpose,in life.
Beware of this, living without a purpose is almost as good as being dead
It’s then the support systems comes to place, they provide you cushion from the hard fall.
Never give up on your parents, best friends, hobbies and any other support system that you can think of.

Relevance of time

Posted on facebook, by me, on  Nov 21, 2014

Everyone has equal amount of time. Ever minute is valuable. So use it wisely. People whom you hang out with, friends that you help, time you spend for another person, all that matters. Allocation time to each and every event or person, means at the end of the day you would not have time to do

Water plants that give flower, try once, try twice, try thrice, if they still yield no results, move to the next plant.

(Matthew 9:37 : The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few )

Valuing other’s opinions

Posted on facebook, by me, on Jun 17, 2014

Years back, when I had to take a very strong decision in my life, people who were close to me, called me a ‘coward’ . Recently when I lost something important, people who were close ( ? ) to me, told me that I am ‘careless’

I felt depressed and then I was reminded of this
OTHERS OPINION OF YOU, DOES NOT HAVE TO BECOME YOUR REALITY

My friend, I want to tell you this. If you are going through a difficult patch in life, don’t worry. Very few people will truly understand what you are going through. So don’t worry. Never take those ‘labels’ seriously.

Yes, I agree, there might be times when you want to listen to other people and take in what is right for you. But this does not apply ALL THE TIME.

So get up and go and do what you need to do. Don’t be afraid of the ‘labels’ or bother too much about what others say about you. They are like the free sauce that comes with the pizza. You can’t avoid it. If you like the pizza, enjoy the sauce. If you don’t like it, throw the pizza away, along with sauce.

Get up and Keep moving forward

 

Truth about lying

Posted on facebook, by me, on May 13, 2014

When I confronted someone who used to lie and cheat on a regular basis, that person hissed back saying, ‘What benefit will I get, if I tell the truth’ ?
I was left speechless.
Do you need a reason, that too, a temporal reason to tell the truth ? I thought that, telling truth was the most natural and beautiful thing to do. I wondered if everyone manipulates or hides truth in such a way as to gain something from it, always weighing in on the advantages between telling and not telling something and then deciding to choose one of the options ?
The world has really changed in the last few years and I am finding it difficult to keep with its pace, or may be, I should leave it at that( not leave the world, but rather leave these thought behind), and continue my path and do what I feel is answerable to my conscience

 

May 11, 2014

I meet countless liars, cheaters or people who suck out life from other people. I even meet lazy people, cruel people or even sarcastic people, every day in my life
Sometime I wonder whether I could learn a few lessons from them and make my life a little better. I mean, I could lie a bit here and there to get through difficult situations or even may be try to be cruel and turn a blind eye towards people who really need me, thereby gaining something from it
But then, I am reminded of some of the finest people in my life, through their actions and thoughts they have brought smile to people around them, including me ( You know who you are ) They are the precious children of God and when they face difficulty in their lives, I sincerely pray that they succeed and come out of it. Remember, my best prayers are with you. You are gem to this universe. Keep continuing what you are doing. You are being a great inspiration to me and all the people around you.
This special day, I want to thank all of you, from my heart, for being alive and doing what you are good at, namely loving others more than yourself

May 5, 2014

Give love to those who deserve to be loved, give care to those who want to be cared. If you spend your love and care on every street dog that you meet, you will only end up with bruises.

 

28th November, 2014

When the most important people leave you and you fight your inner demons all by yourself, I think about this lyrics from Rihanna

You almost feel ashamed, That someone could be that important
That without them, you feel like nothing

No one will ever understand how much it hurts
You feel hopeless; like nothing can save you, And when it’s over, and it’s gone

From the song : Rihanna – We Found Love Lyrics

 

November 22, 2014

I learned this, last week,

You are defined by you, by the things you do, the things that you say

And not by, to whom you were born, to whom you are married to and who your friends are.